At some point in our lives, we have all encountered two faced-people. They are generally referred to as “Back-stabbers" and usually characterized by pretense.
Two-faced people are people who pretend to care about you, people who pretend to be your friend, but inwardly, they are filled with envy, jealousy, and hate towards you. They are deceitful, self-centered and insensitive. Two-faced people are also characterized by insecurity. They are manipulative and have no genuine friends, but possess a chameleon-like ability to fit in with others.
One of the best ways to deal with two-faced people is to acknowledge their existence and bear in mind that every person is capable of showing one face at one time and another face at another time. With this mindset, you can face every person with a combination of friendliness, and caution. It is best to stay on your guard when dealing with two-faced people because they are always afraid of your strengths, loosing you, or being able to gain favors from you, thereby demeaning you.
If you have no other choice than to spend time with a two-faced person, set your boundaries around them. In other words, guard your conversations with such persons. Do not disclose any personal or sensitive information about yourself or another person. Avoid sharing secrets with them, because a two-faced person gathers information as a weapon against you or other people.
Learn to detect the signs of a two-faced person as soon as possible in any relationship so you can be able to nip these acts in the bud. Trust your gut in every relationship, if you believe someone around you is two-faced, watch the person closely, withhold any form of trust and do not rely on such person for anything.
These 20 two faced people quotes are for those who have been hurt by their so called friends:
1. Don’t Worry About What People Say Behind Your Back
“Don’t worry about what people say behind your back, they are the people who are finding faults in your life instead of fixing the faults in their own life”
2. What Matters Is Who Stays Real Behind Your Back
“It’s not about who is real to your face, it’s about who stays real behind your back”.
3. A Reason
“Don’t worry about those who talk behind your back, they’re behind you for a reason”
4. Fake People
“Fake people have an image to maintain. Real people just don’t care”
5. Don’t Let It Affect You
“It’s not your job to stop them from talking behind you, but it’s your job not to let it affect you”
6. Don’t Stress Over Them
“Try not to stress over the shady people who betrayed you. I know it hurts, but the truth is that they were always shady, they’re never going to change, and you’re actually much better off now because at least you know who they really are”.
7. Nasty Words
“Two faced people say nice things about you to your face, then tell others nasty things about you when you’re not around”
8. Strange Respect
“Talking behind my back only means that you respect my presence enough to know better than to act up in my face”.
9. Worthless Friends
“Some friends are like pennies, two-faced and worthless”
“It’s great how two-faced people come in groups! They’re stabbing each other in the back and are too ignorant to know it”.
11. Watch Your Friends
“I’d rather have an enemy who admits they hate me, instead of a friend who secretly put me down”.
“I hate people who are two faced, if you don’t like me then stop pretending like you do”.
13. Be Observant
“People will stab you in the back and then ask why you’re bleeding”
14. A Few Real Friends
“I don’t need a bunch of fake friends. It’s much better to have 4 quarters than 100 pennies”.
15. Two minded People
“Not only can people be two faced but also two minded. Meaning that you may think something but don’t say it or say something but don’t think it. In other words, that means you are two faced or minded”.
16. Being Nice To Someone You Dislike
“I hate it when you have to be nice to someone you really want to punch in the face”.
17. Sometimes It’s Not The People Who Change
“Sometimes it’s not the people who change, it’s the mask that falls off”.
18. Don’t Trust
“When people are two faced, the only thing you’ll know for sure is that you can’t trust either of them”.
19. Everyone’s True Colors
“Everyone’s true colors show eventually”.
20. Listen Carefully
“Listen carefully how a person speaks about other people to you. This is how they will speak about you to other people”.